Valentine's Day is among us! A day where love is celebrated all over the world. You'd think everybody would be happy about Valentine's Day, but unfortunately not everyone is. For many single women, they dread this day because they are... well... single. It becomes hard to celebrate someone else's love when you don't have your own love. It becomes difficult to be happy for others when they get gifts, or engaged when you're alone and feel lonely. You can't truly smile for others when you're sad and depressed within. But, here's the thing... You don't have to sad, alone, depressed or lonely for Valentine's Day. Your day can be just as happy and fulfilling as others and here is how:
1. Remember your True Love. There is no love on this earth like the love of God. He loves you so much, He gave and sacrificed His only Son Jesus Christ just for you (John 3:16). He loves you so much that He promised to be with you at all times (Deuteronomy 31:6,8; Joshua 1:9). He loves you despite what you may have done, said or the person you may have been in the past. He loves you with an everlasting love (Jeremiah 31:3). So be encouraged because you have the Best Love of your life right there with you.
2. Choose to be happy. Happiness is a choice. You must choose to be happy no matter what you're thinking or feeling about your life. You must also choose to be happy for your friends too. When you're authentically happy about someone else's life, you'll soon find reasons to be happy about your own life. Your happiness will manifest the things you desire.
3. Give love to others. So many people look at Valentine's Day as a day to receive gifts, cards, flowers, etc. But it's also a day of giving love and showing your appreciation for the people in your life. Use this day to give love to others. Write an inspiration note, send a card, call a friend, make or buy a special gift for someone. Do something special for the people in your life to show them how much you care for them. Here's the thing... what you make happen for others, God will make happen for you.
4. Love yourself. Use this day to love yourself. Send yourself some flowers, write a love letter to yourself, shower yourself with gifts, get your favorite movie and have a movie date with you, get a mani/pedi, cook your favorite meal or eat your favorite dessert, or have a girls night out/in with your girlfriends. Do something special just to remind you of the love you have for yourself. After all, you deserve it!
5. Make a list. You know "the list" of things you want in a man, right? Well this time, sit and make a list of all the things you want in a relationship. Be as extensive as possible. Then ask yourself this question, "Am I being these things to myself right now?" You see, your best relationship next to the one you have with God is the relationship you have with yourself. When you know how to treat you, you will attract or manifest the man who will treat you the same way. After you make your list, pray over it and begin working on being it so you can one day have it.
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